Friday, December 30, 2011

Need Another Hint?


Actually, Uncle L sent me an email & has correctly identified the main characters drawn by Sofie in yesterdays post, so another hint really isn't needed.

In his email he passed along this photo of the REAL artists rendition & when put close to Sofie's drawings, you can see the resemblance. Thanks for playing!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

A Budding Artist!

During our quiet time today, we watched a 50 minute cartoon DVD. In the bonus section, an animator taught the viewer how to draw 2 of the main characters faces.

On her 1st try, Sofie did pretty well... for someone who will turn 5 yrs in less than a month!

Can you guess the 2 lead characters she drew?
Hint: A famous cartoon duo for several decades &they still continue to delight youngsters today!



Good Luck!!

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Jack and the Beanstalk & Two Mi-mutts

Anna knows parts of many stories & tells them to me in her 2 year old language.
I'm starting to understand much more of her language.
She doesn't like it when I use my voice to sound like the giant in Jack & the Beanstalk.
She covers her ears and begins to cry.
So, in our version, the giant whispers quietly, "Bee Bye Bo Bum!" I cannot stop laughing when she says those words. A whispering giant seems so silly to me in the 1st place & he becomes even more silly to me when he says "Bee Bye Bo Bum!"
She reminds me to NEVER say "BOO!" too loud around her.
The loudness scares her. Halloween books were fun to read in a whisper!

She was a strict "mommy" to her stuffed animals today. She had no desire to color w/Sofie & myself, so she played w/her toys in the same room w/us instead.
Several times, her toys were "misbehaving" and needed a "tie-ow" (time-out).
In her house, you stay in time-outs for 1 minute for every year you've been alive.
She got right up in her toys faces and told them, "2 mi-mutts" while holding up one finger on each of her tiny hands.
Adorable.

Sofie's been trying hard to re-think her reactions to what's going on around her. She whines, screams, pouts & says "NO" much less since she & I have begun a chart for her mom & dad to see about her behavior, emotions & her interactions w/her sister.
A smile face... if she did her best, a neutral face... if she could've done better & a frowning face... if she failed to improve.
She tries to trade toys w/Anna rather than grabbing or screaming & has put herself in a time-out to calm down. I'm proud of her!
Has she achieved perfection? Not yet, but she has improved!
I was nervous about this 1st day back w/them after a Christmas overload of gifts, treats & visitors. I was pleasantly surprised! Thanks, girls!

Sunday, December 25, 2011

2011 Christmas



Phew! Christmas Day is coming to a close.
I have steak tips & funeral potatoes cooking as well as steamed carrots. This meal was requested by C, who is craving real food not from a cafeteria!

Presents were opened by 9am & our monkey bread was in the oven!
C got a Keurig mini coffee maker & all the fixing's. B & I got our big gift back in November when we were able to visit w/Carlotta & bring Christmas. I got a rolling plant stand for my Evergreen gardenia! She continues to grow & thrive even in NE!
I wore my Wes Welker football jersey all day!
Thanks, Saumsiegles! I LOVE the portrait of me & the kids, too!
B got some dress socks that will fit him, a few backpacking mags, toiletries, candy, a telescoping back scratcher & a car air freshener from C.

By 10:30, we were Skype-ing w/Carlotta as she opened her Santa gifts. She kept trying to have us open her toys through the computer screen!
I would've Skype-ed all day, but they & we had other places to be!

Got to K & G's house by 1-ish. Chili bar was on the menu & later there was the traditional ice scream sundaes! Kids are all growing up so fast. There were 3 gift exchanges... One from Grammy & Grampy Lambert, then all the cousins swapped gifts and finally, the adult-ish Yankee Swap. Wondering how I made out during the swap? Check out the pictures above!

All in all, a nice day! Happy to see all the nieces & nephews & even more happy that all those noisy toys are going home with them! Have fun, parents!!

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Why Am I Stressed?

T is hosting her 1st party for her husbands side of her family... @ their new place in VA.
She's very excited about it & considers this to be a grown up thing to do.
It is!
She says that chicken pot pie is on her menu! Good for her!

So,
  • if T is hosting @ her place
  • & her in-laws are the guests (not me)
  • & all she has to cook (or heat up, if she's not doing homemade) is a chicken pot pie or 2,
Why am I so nervous & a little stressed out about it?

It's NOT my house or event!
I'm not even going to be there!

I believe I'm nervous about what people will think of me.
Teaching kids to be smart, responsible, clean & neat people is a mother's job right?
Was I successful @ it?

T left home, got married so fast & so young. I feel my job, as her mother, did not have the opportunity to be completed.
She's been married for 4 years & is a mother now. Her husband & daughter love her very much & seem happy with the way T "keeps house".
I need to learn to be understanding & believe that I did all I could do, in the time I was allotted, to teach my daughter all she needed to know about being a homemaker & a grown-up.
She will learn through trial & error & in her own way & I need to get over it!

So, Good Luck, T with your grown-up party!
You'll have everything ready to go & everyone will have a good time! You've been blessed with a very loving, caring & non-judgmental bunch of in-laws who aren't as OCD as me!
Have Fun!
When in doubt, use paper & plastic! LOL!





Friday, December 23, 2011

Hmmm, sigh.

Snowed another little bit this morning. Made the world pretty to look at, so close to Christmas. It will all be melted in less than 48 hours & there is no snow forecasted in the near future.
Just enough snow to put most people in a Christmas mood!

C & I sat for the "former" kids last night & we didn't get home until 2am. I had to be @ the "newest" kids house by 8am! It was hard to open my eyes after less than 4 hrs of sleep.

Thank goodness for grandparents & a special auntie! The girls are excited to be hosting their beloved Grandma, Granddad & Auntie for the Christmas weekend! I was excited when they showed up @ 12:30! I was able to get home earlier & now I get to take a nap!

Of course, as nice as it was to leave early, I wish my grand daughter was nearby for Christmas! I know, we spent some time w/her & T & M just last month. We even had a "Christmas"! It's not quite the same though! I'll take what I can get & continue to just deal w/it.

I watched the grandparents faces light up as they walked through the door. I think they are more excited than the girls about this visit! Little A was 30 minutes into her nap & S wasn't home from school yet. They will have to hang out for an hour or so & be bored until the girls are up & home. But they didn't mind one bit!

So Merry Christmas Eve eve & I hope everyone made it onto the "NICE" list this year!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Pretty, but Deadly!

There was a small snowfall this morning. It looked like little, sparkly diamonds glittering on the lawn & trees. So pretty!
A bit too early for a white Christmas & too little snow to stay until Christmas!

I had an 8am appointment with a groomer to trim my cats claws. It should've been done a few weeks ago, but I kept forgetting.
With C coming home today for the Christmas break, I figured it could be put off, no longer!

The groomer is 2.5 miles away, a 5 minute drive, tops! Except this beautiful snow was an icy snow & it takes 2 storms for New Englanders to remember how to drive in these conditions!
In case you're wondering... IT'S SLOWLY!!

The sand trucks had not begun their routes when I left for the appointment. I fishtailed a few times, slid through the twisty turns, but I went SLOW & left plenty of room between me & the car ahead of me.
It took 25 minutes to get there!
Silver lining... I drove so slowly, Gracie didn't get carsick! She waited for the ride home.

I had to go over Rt 101, twice, during my drive. The traffic was at a standstill. I saw trucks & cars off the road, across the road & emergency vehicles all over the place.
The radio announcer said parts of the highway were closed due to the high number of crashes.
I called C & told her to stay @ school until the sanders were able to do their job.

I hope B is alright. He left while it was still dark. Schools weren't delayed, so I guess some roads were passable.

Monday, December 19, 2011

A Brownie Experiment

Here's the recipe of my latest cooking adventure. I've recently been introduced to chocolate made with a touch of salt and came across this recipe for:

Brownies with Gray Salt (also called: Sel Gris, it's a gourmet coarse salt, gray in color and moist.)

1 & 1/2 sticks of UNSALTED butter
8 oz (about 1 cup) of high quality SEMI-SWEET chocolate chips (I used Ghiradelli Premium)
1 & 3/4 cup white granulated sugar
1 tsp of REAL vanilla extract (don't skimp & sub with the imitation stuff!)
5 large eggs
1 cup all purpose white flour
1/3 cup unsweetened DUTCH PROCESSED cocoa powder
(you can use the cheap kind, but dutch processed adds a deeper flavor)
1/2 tsp of gray salt (Sel Gris), divided

  • Preheat the oven to 350 degrees, making sure the rack is in the middle position.
  • Line a 9" x 13" baking pan with parchment paper, coming up about 2" on the sides. (I'll try the quick release foil next time)
  • Melt butter, chips in a medium saucepan over Med/Low heat, stirring until smooth.
  • Remove from heat & allow to cool to luke warm.
  • Whisk in the sugar & vanilla.
  • Whisk in the eggs, ONE @ a TIME until the batter is glossy & smooth.
  • In another bowl, whisk together the dry ingredients, leaving 1/4 tsp of the gray salt aside.
  • Slowly whisk the dry mixture into the wet mixture until combined & smooth.
  • Spread the batter into the prepared pan & bake for 30 minutes.
  • (I feel my batch could've used an extra 5 minutes or so, but every oven is different)
  • IMMEDIATELY upon taking the brownies out of the oven, sprinkle on the reserved gray salt.
  • Allow to cool. Cut & enjoy!

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Gee, Your Hair Smells Terrific!

When I was a teenager, there were 2 shampoos on the market I always wanted to try.
However, due to their pricey cost, my mother wouldn't buy them for me.
(I had no allowance, no job, so... no special shampoo for me!)

The first one was called: "Body On Tap".
Even if I had the money, I doubt I would've been allowed to use it.
Because there was supposedly real "beer" in the ingredients, Mom would've thought I would drink it & get drunk!
She had odd thoughts like that all the time!

The 2nd one was called: "Gee, Your Hair Smells Terrific!"
Someone brought some to Girls Camp once & the labeling was true! It did make your hair smell terrific! The neon bottle it came it was appealing too!

I do not like dirty hair. I don't like the way it looks, feels or smells.
I try my best to clean my hair every day.
Recently, I've noticed my hair was thinning
(which I now believe was caused by a headband, breaking my hair strands)
I've tried different shampoos (not Minoxidil though!) never using the same one twice in a row. I've even skipped a day or 2, hoping to slow the hair loss process down.
My broken strands are growing back, on their own, since I changed to a gentler headband.
One certain shampoo in this process has become my favorite due to its smell & overall results.

Today, @ Church (yes, I went to Church, Kathryn!) I was hugged by women I haven't seen in some time. Almost all of them commented on how nice my hair smelled!

It's hard to find the above mentioned brands (Vermont Country Store does sell the 2nd brand I mentioned), so I thought I would share with you, the name of the kind I use now.
It too is a bit pricier than most, but well worth it, in my humble opinion.
And there is no BEER in it, Mom!

Neutrogena T/SAL Therapeutic Shampoo.
So, if Santa or his helpers were to place a new bottle of this stuff in my stocking, I would be most grateful!

Friday, December 16, 2011

Carlotta's Christmas....Tree... and a spider song


The above video is of Carlotta with some promptings from T, she tells us about her tree.
In the video below, Carlotta will serenade you w/her version of "The Itsy Bitsy Spider"

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Another "Jogged" Memory or Two

I was heading to Toys R Us (a trip down memory lane in itself) in Portsmouth. To avoid the highway holiday rush, I took the back roads through the old Pease Air Force Base (now called Pease Tradeport).
I passed a hospital (now an office complex) where I was a patient for 12 days in November of 1987 when I was severely dehydrated due to being preggers, with T!!

While there, I remember listening to the news story about 18 month old, Jessica McClure, falling down a narrow well in Texas.
I was an emotional wreck! Even more so when she was finally rescued several days later!
Motherhood does strange things!

All the nurses were edgy one day during my stay. A helicopter landed @ the hospital carrying the First Lady at that time, Nancy Reagan.
She was there to have surgery due to having breast cancer.
It was real hard to get any nurse to answer the "HELP" call button that day.

When T was almost a year old, I drove us in a Jeep Wrangler (my favorite vehicle of all time) from Virginia Beach to Fort Meade, Maryland to visit my oldest sister & her family.
While we were there, there was to be a dedication of a new NSA building on base. My sister got several tickets, so T & I were able to attend.

Going through security, even back in 1989, was a treat!
T was strapped into her umbrella stroller (called the Umbroller). She was whisked, patted down & "wand-ed" with a metal detector!
I remember thinking how silly it was to believe a bomb or a weapon would be hidden inside a baby stroller, while the baby was in it!
I don't think it's so odd, nowadays!

So, we got into the outdoor event, finally.
We saw a few helicopters coming in for a landing, each heading for a different part of the base. This was a security feature I learned concerning the safety of the President of the United States. Several copters are used to foil any assassination attempts.
No one knew which copter He was on!
Who was... He?
Ronald Reagan, silly! And Casper Weinberger, the Sec. of Defense. There were other generals & people too, but I've misplaced the program! Sorry, that would've been interesting to see again.

I couldn't tell you a word of what they said in their speeches that day. It's probably in an archive somewhere. I do remember the cool feeling I had... being within shouting distance of someone as famous as Ronald Reagan! And my year old daughter with me too!
I'm sure she remembers everything that was said! LOL!!

T, C & I haven't had too many encounters with famous people.
Remind me one day to blog about John Cena, the wrestler from the WWE & star of some recent forgettable movies. Someday it may be interesting to know how I know this guy!

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Just Some Old Pics, from a galaxy far, far away...

I watched her & her brothers the other night. She has grown up so much!

The above picture was taken just before Easter 2008! Kaya was soo little!

Here is Kaya (circa 2008) with 2 of Gracie's sisters, just before they were given to new owners. The gray one was Scaredy Cat (for obvious reasons) and the other ones name was Peanut Butter.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Proof of His Existence

Don't worry!
I'm not blogging here to sway any of my readers one way or the other on the existence of a Heavenly Father! It would need more than a quick blog entry!

No, I'm here to talk about Santa Claus, the big guy from the North Pole who brings good boys & girls a gift or two every 25th of December!

T was almost 12 yrs old, (well past the age where kids usually have an inkling that Santa is not a real person), when she announced that THIS was the year she would scientifically prove to everyone... Santa was real!
HOW?
She would write him a letter & if she got a handwritten, personalized letter from him, she would know, w/o a doubt, that Santa was real!

I'm a middle child of 15, my older siblings broke" the news" to me @ a young age.
I wasn't hurt or upset, but I do wish now that I had been able to hold onto the "magic" a little longer.
T has the luxury of being the oldest of 2 kids. If SHE stopped believing, the younger one would follow suit. I'm grateful that T had no older siblings to ruin her imagination or her sisters'.

Back to the letter of proof.
Uncle B was a senior in High School & his class was having a fundraiser. We could send in a letter from a child & they would write back, as Santa, for a small fee!
I will always remember the happiness & satisfaction on her face when that letter arrived!
In her mind, she had just proven Santa's existence, once & for all!

Now over a decade later, T still remembers this event, with much fondness.
She still believes!

A website, portablenorthpole.tv lets you fill in bits of information about a child.
Then, SANTA himself, will send the child a personalized video. FREE!
I sure wish this service was around back in the day!
I sent one to Carlotta, though she may not even know who Santa is yet!
I'm quite certain that her mom will keep the magic alive for her, as long as possible!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Weather or Not

This has been an unusual autumn here in NH.

It began normal enough in September. The leaves turned beautiful colors, the air was brisk & the windows remained open at night.

Until October! We had some HOT days. One weekend got up to the 90s! We had planned to remove the window A/C's & fans that weekend, but had to postpone it.
Then about 2 weeks later... 8 inches of snow, on Halloween!
Some towns had trick or treat... IN NOVEMBER!

It warmed up again, enough to melt all the snow. Leaf removal in the yard (in shirt sleeves!) was able to be completed. It's OK for snow to fall now.
Off to VA we went, in mid November.
The weather here stayed in the high 50s to low 60s while we were away.
In VA, the 1st day was FREEZING! Then it too became humid & warm.
T put her A/C on for us. Thanks for that, honey.

Now we're less than 20 days until Christmas. It's been too mild for snow.
Monday was in the 60s... IN mid-DECEMBER!
Gary drove his motorcycle to our house that night because it was so warm.
Today is about 50ish with gloomy rain. It's been looking like 4:40pm all day.
Snow is forecast for the morning commute. Depending on where you live in NE, you could see up to 6 inches! We're expecting about 2" in our area. I'm finding it hard to believe that it can get cold enough for snow with the warmth we have been having lately.

As crazy warm as the weather has been...

I'm dreaming of a white Christmas anyway!

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

It's Catchy

I will be going to Manchester later today. I have an appointment to meet up w/C @ school.
Why?
She, like T & M, is having some budgeting issues & has only $60 left on her meal plan for the next 20 days. So, off to the rescue I go w/soup, crackers, cereal & water.

I'm sending T a water filter & a gift card to purchase fresh fruits & veggies, in a care package tomorrow. Having a grand-daughter has made me a softie. If I didn't have Carlotta, T would only be getting crackers & soup, just like C!

Meanwhile, I'm making B very hungry. I'm simmering a homemade, thick beef stew for TOMORROW'S dinner! It's frustrating him for sure! It smells very good!
I'm trying out a recipe that does not include a McCormick Beef Stew Seasonings envelope!
So far, so good!

Monday, December 5, 2011

Potatoes & Pasta

Ahhh! Newlywed bliss!

Very early in our marriage & before children, B & I were trying to be adults (still hard for us at times) and pay our bills as they came in.

During one meager week, the bills were paid (YAY!) but it left no grocery money for the week. I hadn't been successful in locating employment & the USN doesn't pay overtime! I knew my mother would NOT send money!! I didn't know R & C well enough at that time to know if they could or would help us out. We were going to have to make it through on our own!

In our home back then, food storage was non-existent. We had a 5 lbs bag of potatoes and several boxes of spaghetti. There were also a few of those "envelope sauces" in the cupboards, like herb & cheese, beef gravy & hollandaise sauce. I think we had some ketchup & mustard.

We survived! We had interesting meals to say the least! And as soon as the USN sent the next paycheck, groceries were the 1st thing we bought! And we have NEVER repeated the mistake of having no food for decent meals in our home. Though I remember my kids complaining that there was NO FOOD in the house! Kids! What do they know about having NO FOOD!

T & M are about to find out!
Of course, I won't let them starve (or let Carlotta go w/o Pampers) but I'm interested to see how creative they can be with the little bit of food in their house!
T & M will celebrate their 4th year of marriage next week! So why, after 4 years of marriage, are they so broke these next 14 days? They spent their extra money this month, on a DC trip to the temple to witness Carlotta's younger cousin be sealed to her parents. Good cause!

Hang in there guys! Someday, you'll look back on this experience with fondness.

Friday, December 2, 2011

Dulse

My grandfather, NRM, Sr, owned his own painting business in the Nbpt, MA area, back in the 1930s to 60s. Working for himself meant he was able to be home off and on throughout his work day or when it was raining.
I recall my grandmother cooking pork chops, mashed podaydas (that's how she pronounced, potatoes) with gravy, a veggie and rolls for his LUNCH! There was usually a homemade dessert. Later, she would have an equally large meal prepared for his dinner! My grandfather must have worked real hard or had high metabolism to remain slender AND eat what he did!
Breakfasts were a big deal in their home too!

The memory that I recalled today was about a food my grandfather kept in a small pouch.
This pouch was similar in shape & size to his pipe tobacco pouch. Touching the tobacco pouch was a "no-no", but we could play with the other pocket pouch all we wanted!

Perhaps it was due to not being able to touch the tobacco that made me want what was in the other pouch! Its contents looked like tobacco to me. I wanted this stuff so badly! Finally, I was able to get the pouch open. I helped myself to a slug of this salty, purple, slimy goodness!
My grandfather called this stuff, DULSE!
I must have FORCED myself to eat it, no kid would like this stuff, naturally!
Whenever he visited, I insisted on trying it again & again.
Soon, I had acquired a taste for it, even a craving at times.

Time went on. I saw my grandfather less & less. I got married, had kids and he passed away before my kids knew him. I never found out where he bought Dulse. It became a forgotten memory along with his constant aroma of pipe tobacco.
A few years ago, I discovered an old time country store, a bit north of where we now live.
They had DULSE! I purchased it, ate some right away.
I remembered my grandfathers scratchy whiskers & how he would swing me around, always happy to see me, his Jenny FooFoo!
I bought another package whenever I was in the area.
Then, one day, they didn't have it anymore!

Until today!
Maybe they only carry it near the holidays? I bought 2 packages today.
That should last me a few months.
My kids hate it. B thinks its disgusting.
I love it! And I love the fond memories it invokes for me.
Now, whenever I get a hankering for something salty, I'll take a slug of Dulse.
A slug of Dulse must be healthier for me than a bag of podaydo chips, right?
And my grandfather will be remembered.

BTW, Dulse is a product of Canada. They call it a "marine vegetable".
It is harvested from Grand Manan in the cold, North Atlantic. I eat it straight from the package, but have been told it can be used in cooking or on a salad.
Dulse is dried SEAWEED!
Be careful, Dulse is hand packed & a small pebble may have been missed by the handlers!

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

A Poultry Visit

Not that long ago, I posted about a flock of wild turkeys coming to my front yard for a visit. They must've put the word out, because here are some of their cousins, a flock of chickens!

Zee and Gracie are glued to the windows! These fowls are not afraid of much & have come right up to the windows of our house! Thank goodness the weather is nice enough to have our windows open for my cats.

The above photo is of Zee's head as she watches these creatures! The chickens are getting their fill of bugs & worms in my yard! Maybe having them here isn't so bad!

This is a picture of that rooster who likes to crow. He crows very loud and way too early in the morning! The neighbors used to have a big dog named, Tango. I haven't seen or heard him in some time! Maybe this rooster drove him crazy too, so he left!


I did feed the chickens some bread loaf heels to keep them in the area for this short video! You can't see them, but Gracie & Zee are watching intently from the windows.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

A Bug

Can cats catch a "bug" from a human?
I was sick, a little, when I returned from VA.
Carlotta, who remained in VA, was also sick yet her symptoms hit her a little worse.
I was also sick on Thanksgiving night (though I had chalked that up to my "experience" w/my throat.)

Yesterday, I noticed Gracie was acting differently.
She wanted to be near me, always touching me.
She was eating less, sleeping more (Yes, a cat CAN SLEEP more!)
Yet, she was continuing to pee & poop, regularly.
Then this morning, she wouldn't eat breakfast. She just laid on the floor, staring at me.
When I went to pet her, she took off. It took a while for me to find her.
She took off again when I knelt down to check her out.
When C woke up, she almost stepped in a pile of goo (turned out to be vomit).
C was NOT a happy college co-ed after that!

I'm making sure Gracie is drinking clean, fresh water. I did just see her eating some breakfast.
But back to my original question...
Can a cat (or any animal) catch a "bug" from a human?

Thursday, November 24, 2011

I Missed Thanksgiving, most of it.

I began cooking Thanksgiving dinner on Wednesday. We each chose a side dish. I wanted them cooked & then I'd reheat on Thanksgiving Day. I chose creamed turnip, B... mashed potatoes & cranberry sauce. C chose carrots. I learned too late she wanted plain carrots, not gingered ones! And rolls! We all wanted rolls. Unhealthy, soft, white rolls that take only 5 minutes to cook.

Early Thursday morning, I awoke early & began the stuffing of the bird. (Reminder to self: Use LESS salt in the salt rub!) I set the table, B did the dirty dishes & C kept to herself in her room.
Everything was perfect!

B gave a nice blessing on the food & we began loading up our plates. I was "test" eating as I loaded my plate & talking about the preparation of the meal.
WHAT a STUPID thing for me to do!

Three bites into the meal, just as C asked if I had used celery in my stuffing (I did BTW), a familiar feeling overtook me. I haven't felt this feeling since July 2009.
I haven't felt this feeling since 2009 because I've been careful!
Careful to cut my meat VERY TINY! Careful to use gravy, butter or a beverage to lubricate the food in my mouth. Careful NOT TO TALK while eating.
I was careless! And now, I had food LODGED in my esophagus.

I coughed, gagged, jumped up & down and tried to swallow. I tried anything & everything to dislodge the food! I did not want to end up @ the ER with a gastroendologist sticking a grabber down my throat to pull out the food I should've eaten more carefully!
Been there, done that... no fun!
As I struggled, B & C tried their best to continue eating w/o becoming grossed out w/the sounds I was making in the bathroom. I'm sorry, guys. Thank you for cleaning up for me.

Two hours later, I still could not swallow my own saliva w/o gagging it back up. Nothing was budging or penetrating the blockage.
Off we started to the ER. I had a cup (for my spit) and a towel. I had 1 gagging attack halfway there. I sat back, took some deep breaths while thinking of the questions the staff would ask. I thought of the headache I would get w/nitroglycerin. And there was the "procedure" I would have to go through, I knew was NOT going to enjoy the experience.

I felt something drop in my stomach. No way! Could it be true? I swallowed a few times. Nothing. I cleared my throat a few times, again, NOTHING! B pulled over as I took a few sips of cold water. I felt the coolness run through my whole throat!
No gagging reflex, no pressure, NO MORE BLOCKAGE!

My throat is very sore & scratchy. I'm avoiding the leftover turkey. And for some reason, I can't stop burping & have terrible heartburn. But the blockage is gone!

We were able to continue to Ben's where we met up w/family & had pies & dessert (I stuck to ice cream). Then off to see Breaking Dawn (pt 1).
Maybe I didn't get a Thanksgiving meal, but I had a memorable Thanksgiving!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Where Am I?


I have NEVER enjoyed viewing myself in a photograph! I dislike it so much, that I've done my darnedest to never be in pictures! I've left the room, hid my face or stood behind a tall person! That's why I married B, right? He's 12 inches taller & can hide me, right?!
LOL! JK!

As I've aged (& not very gracefully) I realize that future generations MAY actually want to see me in some photos. While I continue to dislike seeing myself in a photo, I allow myself to be in more & more photos, for the future generations.

In photos of our recent trip to visit Carlotta, you may be noticing I'm not in the pictures I've posted here or on FB. This is due to the fact... I was the one TAKING the photos!
B did snap a few of Carlotta & me enjoying Elmo's World on TV. None of those pics make me look good, but I must put up at least one photo w/me in it to prove I was there...
So, you get the above photo!
Carlotta is adorable! She was babbling throughout the whole show.
I like to believe she was explaining the premise of the show to me.

Saturday, November 19, 2011

T Needs a Cat! or Two.

T lives in a city now. For VA, this city is urban. It comes with perks such as public transportation & parks. It comes with problems like pollution & pests.
Pests such as RATS!
The weather is cool there now so she won't know until the spring if bugs will be a problem. Rats are bad enough!

We recently spent a week in her place (she's been there only a month or so). I brought a cot to sleep on. B said he'd be fine on the floor. T, M & B heard scratchy sounds in the wall of the bedroom but there were no telltale "droppings" so they figured rodents weren't in their place, but rather in the downstairs apartment. Now that the rat has been seen in THEIR place, I suppose B was fortunate not to have come face to face with the thing!

Their landlord allows cats (de-clawed cats, that is). In my limited experience, cats are more than likely to be on the list of animals landlords DO NOT allow. He must've known about these nasty rat creatures to allow cats in his building.

So, M & T are "debating" about whether to get one or not. Both believe they need one, but are unsure of the "start-up" costs or needs of owning a cat. Let me see if I can help.
Or confuse.
It's going to be a long winded entry for sure, so if you bore easily... log out now!
If you're not a cat person, log out now!


Medical Costs:
Initially, a cat should be spayed or neutered. An animal shelter usually does this procedure.
Then there's rabies & distemper shots. The 1st ones also usually are done @ the shelter. My cats get their booster shots as recommended by their vet. A yearly wellness check w/boosters & blood work for 2 cats is about $200. I save all year for this cost.
I have seen many cats do fine w/o seeing a vet every year.
Don't forget flea & tick protection (such as Frontline). Even indoor cats can be exposed to these bugs. I use Frontline in the warmer months. It's a pricey application, but effective! I'm unsure how effective "over the counter" flea products are, so ask the shelter.
I have NO CLUE on the cost to de-claw a cat! I have Gracie & Zee's nails trimmed evry 6-8 wks.

Grooming:
Depends on the breed of cat! Mine are American Short hair cats & need very little to no brushing. They do shed their fur, so I Swiffer or vacuum the floors. I wash throw blankets & bedding often to keep the hair count down. I use lint rollers if needed on clothes.
They are self cleaning! Give plenty of daily, clean water to help alleviate hairballs. And the cat will get hairballs! If fed properly & watered often, the cat won't get too many!

Feeding:
An adult cat, like Gracie, should weigh about 10 lbs. Indoor cats don't get as much exercise as outdoor ones so they don't need to be fed as much.
Cats are lactose intolerant, NO MILK! For that matter, no human food!
Although... Gracie likes a bite sized piece of raw chicken now & then. Zee dislikes it!
I give my cats 1 cup of dry cat food in the morning to share throughout the day.
The cost of cat food varies. Look for sales.
I got 3, five pound bags of various flavors & mix together in a covered, Rubbermaid tub.
I've chosen Iams, Hills Science and Purina One, all formulated for indoor cats, with Hairball control. Then, as I notice the food in tub getting lower, I alternate buying one of the aforementioned foods & mix it into the tub.
It's about one, 5 pound bag every month after the initial 3 bags.
I suggest a feeding tray under their food dish unless you like stepping on scattered cat food!
At dinner time, my cats each get 1 T of cat treats but only because I spoil them.
Canned, wet food should be unnecessary if there are enough FRESH, CLEAN water sources.
Mine have several water sources. A fountain, a dish, the fish tank & the bathroom sink!
Cats have a waist!
You should see their waist w/o seeing the outline of the bones of their rib cage!
If you see bone outlines, you're underfeeding. No waist means your cat is overfed.

Bathroom:
Cats seem to come programmed to use a litter box. I've tried several automated, self-sifting, open, covered and hidden litter boxes. I find the taller, large, covered boxes to be their preference. The cover provides privacy when doing their thing & helps to keep the litter "dust" contained when they cover up their business.
There will be litter tracked onto the floor. You can lessen the amount by using mats under the box. I shake my mats outdoors every day. The pet stores have all kinds of mats.
I HIGHLY recommend a XL mat!
A depth of 3-4 inches of kitty litter should be maintained. Cats detest using a "dirty" litter box. Pee & feces MUST be sifted out daily! Use a sturdy sifting scoop w/a storage holder.
Fresh litter should be put in as needed.
I find Arm & Hammer litter to be effective in controlling odors as well as clumping for easy sifting/removal. A 22 pound box is about $12 and should last about a month. I bought a huge, economy sized plastic container with a lid as my initial purchase. Now, I buy the cheaper "refills" & transfer the litter into the plastic container. It's important to keep the litter DRY!
I keep a large yogurt container nearby to help make replenishing the litter boxes easier for me.
Save your grocery bags! They work great for disposing of used kitty litter.
Also, NEVER flush kitty litter down the toilet!

Sleeping:
My spoiled cats can sleep where they want to, usually in the crook of my arm or knees!
If you don't want cats to sleep with you, shoo them off (maybe over & over until they understand).
Keep a soft place nearby like on a chair (they like higher sleeping places to observe you)
They sleep a lot but are aware of you! Their ears are always moving even in sleep. Busiest, most active cat times are @ dawn & dusk. BTW, They purr only when awake. Their eyes may be closed, but if they are purring, they're still awake.

Training:
Cats can be trained with patience & repetitiveness & more patience.
I taught mine to stay off the computer by pressing the aerosol dust remover can.
Not AT them, just near them.
Even now, they need a gentle reminder once in a while. To keep them off the countertops, I used the kitchen sink sprayer. Of course, I had to wipe up a water mess, but they stay off the counters. And they are not allowed on the dining table when people are eating! Shooing them away over & over worked in this situation.

Play Time:
Even adult, indoor cats need stimulation! Eventually all the rodents will have disappeared!
I love interacting w/Gracie & Zee. We play tag, chase balls, wrestle fake mice or octopus or use a laser light. They love a perch near a window to "see" things. The sun coming thru a window is a sleep inducer! I have a cat tree for them to climb & stretch their claws on, but they would still be happy cats w/o it! I sprinkle catnip on something to perk up their interest. My cats do get their teeth on my skin during playtime, but have NEVER bitten me!

So, if you're still reading this... I'm impressed!
I love my cats!
Sorry T & C for not having them when you were growing up.
They are so easy to care for once you set everything up!
Good luck in your "feline vs rat" discussions, T & M!
Keep that nasty rat off of my grandbaby!

Our Little Drama Queen!











She emotes so much emotion through her face!
Very few words are needed.
She has big, brown eyes and she does not blink very often.
(though I managed to take many pictures of her; in mid-blink!)
Maybe she'll be an actress or a MIME?

Friday, November 18, 2011

A Video of Carlotta!


Just a short video of a mealtime we had with Carlotta on Monday night.
Nothing special, though we were able to get her to eat something, finally!

You OK?

Carlotta took a spill (seems to stumble more when wearing shoes) and bumped her nose.
She didn't cry for long but had her 1st bloody nose!
Since she already had a mucus-y runny nose from a cold, she wasn't looking her best.
In above photo, I caught her, mid-blink, (which is weird, because she hardly ever blinks!) as she came running over to me for a NONIE HUG!

This is her best impression of a gangsta girl! Or Auntie C!
Actually, she was probably about to throw a fit for something she wanted.
She had easily learned that throwing a fit in front of Nonie... usually resulted in getting her whatever was previously denied!

Her nose was sore to the touch. She wouldn't let us touch it! The bleeding had stopped, but until she let us near her face, the look above is what we saw!
Eventually, Nonie gave her a "glow in the dark" bath (one of several) & her beautiful face returned.
Along with her laughter, which she does... a lot!
YEAH!

She made me chuckle every time she said, "You OK?"
If I coughed, "You OK?"
If SHE coughed, "You OK?"
Stubbed my toe, "You OK?"
Her dolly fell on the floor, "You OK?"
When she came down too hard off her slide, "You OK?"

Someday she'll know the difference between YOU and I, but I'm enjoying it for now!


Thursday, November 17, 2011

Sit On It! Then, Spin?


B & I brought many toys & such to Carlotta for Christmas. We chose her gifts carefully, each one would have to be fun, but also helpful to her mind development and overall co-ordination.
We didn't "break the bank" but we did spoil her.

During one of our outings, while in VA, we visited a Goodwill store, looking for a cheap bookcase for storing all of T's craft supplies.
We didn't find a bookcase there, but spent less than $3 on another toy.
A Sit "N" Spin! A musical one to boot!

She learned very quickly how to spin herself around.
We've been gone from her for 2 days, I'm certain her parents have "lost" the batteries to the music. Or found a way to muffle the volume. That's what I would've done!

On our way home, T called me. Her mother in-law had just called her, asking if she should buy a Sit 'N' Spin she saw at the Goodwill near her, for Carlotta!
Great minds think alike!
Or maybe it's just grandmothers, who enjoy spoiling their grandkids, who think alike?

Something About My Visit




B & I have returned from a much too short visit to VA to see Carlotta, T & M. While we were there, we celebrated a mini Christmas morning (even C was there! Thanks to Skype!).
I should clarify that it was a mini Christmas morning for everyone but Carlotta!
She got the FULL EXPERIENCE of being spoiled @ Christmas!
Nonie & Ooogie (her new name for B!) gave her a play kitchen with several food items. She quickly decided that the wooden cookies in a tube were the best food to play with!
She was able to put them IN then dump them OUT.
She could COUNT them (one, two, one, two, sometimes a three).
She could give them to us to "eat", which she did often. I'm used to eating plastic food, so wooden food was a nice change.
I'll blog about my trip in future entries. It was nice to see T & M in their new place. Sorry we left such a disorganized mess of toys for her to find places to put them. But we had fun w/Carlotta! Missing her kisses, spontaneous hugs and watching her play. Mwah!

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Cats Are Just Like Kids... sometimes!

I am almost ready to begin my drive to VA w/B in the morning. A load of laundry to dry & fold, then I'm done. I'm so excited to see, hug, kiss and play w/Carlotta! Hopefully, C will clean up after herself on the days she visits the cats!

Speaking of cats...

Back in the day, when my daughters were young & loved toys, dolls, books and games, I put things "away". I'd tuck boxes in the closet or storage space. When the urge to "de-clutter" hit me, some boxes would reappear, while others got stored away.

Every time, to my girls, it was like Christmas all over again. Even though they had seen the stuff before, they had forgotten & for a while... it was all new again!

When my cats were kittens, they had every cat toy known to humans! As they grew, toys became less interesting, so I put some away. Only some, after all, even adult cats like to play with string & feathers once in a while!

With B & I leaving them for a week, I thought they would be bored. Windows are shut (nights are chilly) & they can't get into the deck house w/o human help.
I pulled out the box of toys, freshened w/new catnip & watched them play w/the toys like there's no tomorrow!
Gracie likes the treat dispensers & catnip pillows. Zee has a stuffed mouse (she doesn't let it out of her sight!). I even saw her drowning it in her water bowl!
Then there's the Kicker-Roo. Both cats like this toy. They wrestle w/each other to see who gets dibs on this toy.

When we return, toys will go back in the box & put away again. Until we leave them again. When we return, they'll be happy to see us, just like our kids were a long time ago.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

An Autumn Day 2011




Yes, in the above photo, there is a little girl inside that pile of leaves! Look carefully!

Miss Jen! Where did Sofie go?

To see if something is dead, one must POKE it with a stick!
Yeah, THAT only happened ONCE!

Our home made Thanksgiving tea light holders.
Stickers & Mod Podge & battery operated candles.

New haircuts for my older charges! First time in 2 years they got their hair cut w/o me! Their Mom brought them & did a great job explaining how they wanted their cuts, to the stylist.
Nice looking kids, and so loving to each other in this picture!

Monday, November 7, 2011

Our First Thanksgiving


This month marks the 1st Thanksgiving season I will spend w/my newest charges. It will be a shorter season than usual, due to my trip to VA to see Carlotta for a week!
The above photo is the craft we made today.
Tomorrow, we'll be making Thanksgiving themed tea-light candle holders!
We will be using the battery-operated kind of tea-light, for safety's sake!

Saturday, November 5, 2011

The Spoken Words


I am so proud of her! Carlotta is saying many recognizable words!


Yes, many are repeated words, she may not know exactly what she is saying... but I don't care!


I will be talking face to face with her very soon! And she will finally realize that a phone is a phone and a Nonie is a Nonie! I expect to have loads of "spoiling the grandchild" time!

A Laugh for Larry


Aloha, Larry!

I have arrived home very late tonight & noticed one of my friends on Facebook had posted this little picture cartoon. For some reason, I thought of you. So, enjoy!
Hello to MaryAnne!

Aloha!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Thanksgiving Craft Ideas



The above & below photos are here just for T!
She has a large collection of tissue tubes and I thought these would keep her busy!!




Thank you, Internet friends!
I will be making these items w/the kids over the next few weeks. I had planned on making lots of turkeys with them, using various mediums.
However, Sofie has requested, "Not So Many Turkeys!"

I may not get to all of the crafts, but now I have the photos in my blog for future references.